My Question might seem to be funny to you. But... here it is...
Assume that you are a friend of a guy named Exe and also a friend of a girl named Wye.
Exe and wye falls in love with each other and gets married. After few years they get a child and you find them living happily.
But as time passes, you get to hear lot of complains about Exe from Wye. And you get to know that Wye got bored of Exe and she found another guy. Also, you get to know that she just want to end their marriage then....
Exe comes to know that Wye doesn't want to live with Exe anymore, but still... for the sake of their little kid he doesn't want to end up in divorce...
Now... You are a friend of both of them.
Will you choose Wye and try to make her understand. Or will you choose Exe and give advices to him on how to make the relationship better???
Even then, if you try to make Wye understand... How can you make her understand??! =\
image source: my phone.. its a picture of one of my note book page.
5 babbling[s]:
you should talk to them seperately
find our why wye is bored of exe
and then tell exe ways how to make it better
just tell them to talk to each other like adults
coz you can find love even in the deepest pits,
coz if it was there once, it would obviously be there forever
u give advice to the person who comes to you and talk to you about it..if both of them do come to you for help, as mini has said, hear both the sides of the story and let both of them talk infront of you..
if u heard all of these from someone else, then leave them =)
I kinda like the names, Wye and Exe...
Hehe, may be I'll just umm, talk to Wye and tell her about what will happen to their kid and stuff... =)
anhaaa.
this one is out of question really...
let the Exe think through it, and there is no reason why he should not terminate the marriage. the world has changed, i believe he has had enough of compromise, even for the sake of the kid they should separate. if the kid knows that parents are having problems and moreover, that the mommy is seeing another new dadddy, it would have more long term effects on the kid.
if they(Exe and Wye) decide to live along, putting the past behind them and starting all over again, its a matter of time that the Exe finds that the Wye is seeing another guy, even if she isn't. Wye starts seeing more defects or problems with the Exe.
So bottom line is that the relation ships, especially marriages don't work with out TRUST. you can not earn it once you have lost it.
and kudos to the you, you use great names, .exe,,,,is dat a virus!!
.mini - as you said I feel its better to leave them to talk like adults.
shweetikle - okay :D
Here both came and shared what's going on..
shaha - what if she doesn't want to change???
mode - good thinking!:D
btw.. its "X" and "Y" :D
I never thought of the virus thing when I wrote this :D
Thanks .mini, shweetikle, shaha and mode for commenting =)
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